Online dating etiquette
Let’s be honest, fellas—online dating is a jungle. One wrong move, and you’re either ghosted, unmatched, or forever stuck in the “hey, how’s your day?” loop (aka, purgatory). But fear not! If you want to go from “seen” to sexy, intriguing, and actually landing dates, this guide is your holy grail.
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Table of online dating etiquette
1. Stop with the Generic Openers (For the Love of Swipes, Be Original!)
Nothing dries up attraction faster than “Hey.” or “How are you?” If your opener could be copied and pasted to 100 different women, you’re already losing. Instead, reference something from her profile, a unique compliment, or hit her with a spicy “I bet I can guess your go-to cocktail. Challenge accepted?”
🔥 Pro Tip: Confidence is sexy. Boredom is not.
2. Don’t Be the Human Resume – Save That for LinkedIn
Nobody wants a monologue about your career goals, your gym routine, or your car. Mystery is attractive! Instead of dumping your entire life story, drop hints:
🚀 “Just got back from a weekend road trip—remind me to tell you how I almost ended up in Vegas accidentally.”
Now, she’s intrigued and wants to know more. That’s how you keep the conversation flowing!
3. If She Wanted an Eggplant Pic, She’d Ask for It
Gentlemen, I shouldn’t even have to say this… but here we are. NO unsolicited nudes. Ever. Period. Want her intrigued? Leave something to the imagination.
🔥 Pro Tip: A teasing, well-crafted text is 100x sexier than a lazy pic she didn’t ask for.
4. Match Her Energy – Don’t Be the Clingy Guy in Her DMs
Did she respond with a one-word answer? Take the hint. Don’t double-text, don’t write her a novel, and for the love of dating gods, don’t beg for attention.
✔️ If she’s engaged, keep going.
❌ If she’s disinterested, move on like the king you are.
5. Voice Notes = Instant Attraction Boost (Use Them!)
Texting is great, but your voice carries confidence, charm, and a whole lot of sexy. Send a quick voice message with a playful challenge or a cheeky compliment.
🔥 Example: “I have a feeling you have the cutest accent. Prove me right.”
BOOM. Instant intrigue.
6. Planning the Date? Don’t Be a “So, What Do You Wanna Do?” Guy
Nothing is less attractive than indecision. If you’re setting up a date, OWN IT. Give her options, but take the lead:
🌟 “Alright, two choices: cocktail bar with killer margaritas or a speakeasy with a secret entrance. What’s your vibe?”
Confidence = HOT.
7. The Ultimate Power Move? Leave Her Wanting More
End the convo at its peak. If she’s laughing, engaged, and enjoying herself, don’t drag it out until it fizzles. Instead, drop a playful cliffhanger:
🔥 “You’re trouble. I like it. Let’s continue this over drinks.”
Now, she’s thinking about you until the date.
Final Thoughts – Time to Step Up Your Game!
Online dating doesn’t have to be a battlefield of awkward DMs and ghosting nightmares. With the right mix of charm, wit, and confidence, you can stand out from the masses.
📌 Which of these rules are you guilty of breaking? Drop a comment or share your worst (or best) dating moments!
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